Friends are the family we get to choose for ourselves or
what we call it nowadays our “tribe”. It is very important to choose our
friends wisely because they have an influence on certain aspects of our lives
like our morals and social behaviour. The company you keep reflects who you are
as an individual and what you stand for. Some people might judge you based on
your friends, if they see your friends they see you. Below are some types of
friends everyone should avoid :
The control freak
That one friend who wants everything done their way. They have
a better opinion on everything and you have to agree with them all the time. When
you don’t do what they want it turns
into a fight. The moment they feel like you cannot be controlled they get mad
and want to control how others view you. This is a toxic type of friends which
you do not need around you if you want a drama free life.
The competitor
The one who doesn’t want to see you do better than them. They actually
pretend to be happy for you while in their minds they are thinking of ways to
get ahead of you. It means your friend is not pleased with your achievements
because they always want to be better than you in every aspect. Whatever you have they
want it. Friends should encourage each
other to be the best not to compete. If your tribe is not proud of you and want
to compete with you all the time it’s better to let them go. They are not good
for your progress.
The backstabber
These friends are more dangerous than a viper. They are
two faced people who can smile in your face while you are around and talk trash
about you as soon as you leave. In other words they are fake people. There is a
possibility that they can plot evil against you if you have a misunderstanding.
Beware of this type and stay as far away from them as possible.
The parasite
They are also known as the blood suckers. These ones are out there to benefit something from you only. When they are done
they distance themselves from you. This type sticks around for their
convenient. When you are in need you can never see these friends around. Friends are meant to be there for you through thick and thin. Distance yourself from such friends who are
only there in happier times and for their own good.
The whining one
That friend who can never stop complaining about everyone
and everything. You can never have a constructive conversation because they
always have a lot to whine about. They complain about their job, partner and
life all the time. They do not want to change their condition but talk about it
non-stop. Life becomes beautiful when we are positive. Do not spend your time
with negative people otherwise they will drag you down in their misery and you
will not appreciate the blessings in life.
The inattentive one
Have you ever tried talking to someone and they just don’t
pay attention? I know it sucks especially coming from your friend. The inattentive
type of friends never pay attention to the important issues in your life. They tend
to forget things that matter to you because they were not involved in the
conversation. They are always on their phones worrying about the likes on their
posts or responding to petty texts. Avoid investing your energy in a friendship
that is fruitless. Major on people who have your back and make you a priority
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